Why some people can't build long-term relationships: Psychologists explain

06.06.2023 17:30

It's pretty normal for younger people to prefer casual dating over long-term relationships, but later in life most people choose to settle down.

But wanting to settle down and being able to build strong and long-lasting relationships are two different things.

Let's find out the main reasons why some people can't build serious and stable connections with their partners.

Fear of intimacy

Some individuals may struggle to open up and establish deep connections with others due to experiences, attachment issues, or a fear of being hurt or rejected. 

Commitment issues

Certain individuals may struggle with commitment and find it challenging to commit to a long-term relationship. 

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They may fear being tied down or losing their independence, leading them to avoid or sabotage potential long-term relationships.

Trust issues

People with trust issues may have been hurt or betrayed in the past, leading to difficulties in trusting others. 

Communication problems

Some individuals may struggle with expressing their needs, emotions, and concerns openly. 

They may have difficulty listening, understanding, or empathizing with their partners, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts that can strain long-term relationships.

Personal issues or past trauma

Personal issues, such as unresolved trauma, low self-esteem, or mental health concerns, can affect one's ability to establish and maintain long-term relationships. 
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Contents
  1. Fear of intimacy
  2. Commitment issues
  3. Trust issues
  4. Communication problems
  5. Personal issues or past trauma