How to prepare your child for the arrival of a brother or sister: tips to help avoid jealousy between children

17.02.2024 22:00
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:26

Try not to worry, and our tips will help you prepare for the birth of your second child.

In this article, we will tell you how you can prepare your child for the birth of your second.

At what age is it better to have a second child

Doctors usually recommend planning a second child at least 2 years after the birth of the first or a little later.

However, this figure is taken on the condition that the mother is completely healthy and the birth took place without complications.

It is in this case that approximately this period of time is needed to restore the female body.

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How can you prepare your child for the birth of a brother or sister

It's better to say it like it is. About the fact that the child will have a brother or sister.

You can then explain that at first the baby will sleep, eat, and cry a lot.

Explain to your child that your brother or sister will not walk, sit, or talk right away.

That's why you will carry him or her in your arms.

At the same time, do not forget to tell the older child that they were exactly the same and you did the same with him.

It is the parents who should tell about the addition, not grandmothers or other relatives.

Accept any reaction your child may have to this news. Don't discount your emotions or thoughts about this.

How to support your child

Just sit next to them, hug them, whisper comforting words. Don't leave your baby alone with his problems.

You can offer your help even if they don't really need it.

This way they will feel your support and support.

If the child flatly refuses to talk about his experiences, do not insist on it. In this case, they want to be alone.

Previously, we talked about the reasons for jealousy in relationships.

Diana Dashkevich Author: Diana Dashkevich Editor internet resource


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  1. At what age is it better to have a second child
  2. How can you prepare your child for the birth of a brother or sister
  3. How to support your child